Prioritize Soul Alignment
Our alignment should be top priority. Literally top priority. If alignment is not our top priority, we will also un-prioritize what is actually important for our soul's evolution. We'll mix and match priorities that shouldn't be a priority at all. There's a lot of people on this planet that want a very deep, intimate relationship with a significant other, yet they have nothing going on in life. Now, if that's your soul's alignment, then that's your soul's alignment. But I know that's not everybody's soul's alignment. That's looking for deep, passionate, intimate love, right?
Alignment is like assessing where you're at in your video game. And you are on your path, which is your alignment, your internal compass. When you're trying to get to specific levels, there are specific objectives that you are supposed to accomplish in order to get to where you need to go. Now, if your objective that you signed up for with God or the universe is to do this certain thing, but you're over here doing this other certain thing, you're going to be in loops, wasting years or who knows how long a time, right? Not accomplishing what you came to accomplish, not fulfilling what you came here to fulfill, right? Because your ego is pulling you this way to go chase love. And when you need to be working on your foundation over here, this is what complicates relationships sometimes because I feel like a lot of people are out of alignment, but we're trying to force relationships while being out of alignment. It's a mess. You got two people who are out of alignment trying to create and maintain a relationship. Maybe they're partially in alignment, but nothing else is going to work if you're out of alignment. It's an illusion that life should be difficult. Life should not be difficult. That is a belief..
Life should not be difficult. Life should be easy. Now, of course there's challenges to life, but when you're on the soul path, your ego feels like you're sacrificing to get where you're going. But we're not sacrificing. We're just doing only what is necessary for our soul's evolution, for our soul desire, our soul path, our soul contract, whatever the we signed up for before we came here. The ego wants everything to be all fancy. Ego says “I want this to look a certain way, and I want this sort of relationship right now”, and all this other stuff. But in reality, maybe that's not what your soul wants.
The thing about soul alignment and ego alignment is that they clash with one another. To get on a more soul aligned path, we have to basically empty ourselves of our egoic attachments, egoic desires, our egoic side of ourselves that steers the wheel. Sometimes, our soul is trying to lead us this way. But our ego's like, “No, let's go over here, we want this. This sounds better over here.
When we go with the path of the ego, then we're going alone. We're not going with God and the universe, we're not going with Source. We're going with all the other egomaniacs that are also alone. Flesh, bodies steering the wheel, not the soul. When we're on the soul path, we are with God and the universe. We don't feel alone, right? So when sh** gets real, we understand tough times are gonna pass. Like this is just a test, right? Because there's clarity and there's the higher perspective of what's occurring. Now. This of course might take some experimenting with egoic attachments and desires because you have to distinguish which is which. If you can’t distinguish it from the start. But when you're on a soul aligned path, it's not going to look like what your ego wants your life to look like. Your ego is going to say, “oh, if we don't get these things that we want, we're going to be sad or life won't be the same, or life won't be as fulfilled or we're going to feel some sort of way about it.” That's the ego talking to you. That's egoic illusion. The soul doesn't need anything, God doesn't need anything, Universe doesn't need anything to feel whole and complete.
Short banter on Alignment in Relationships:
One thing that my most recent experiences taught me, is that alignment is first. Alignment should be top priority. Ask yourself: “Does this feel good? Does this feel like it's serving me? Does this feel like this can contain who I am? Does this feel like a container or a constraint?” When you put your alignment first, you start realizing that whatever is meant for you, is literally - meant for you. There's nothing you “need to or in-authentically force yourself to do” in order to make something feel aligned. People drastically compromise in order to make something work. Now, I know that there's a balance to everything, but people will change themselves and take themselves out of alignment in order to help somebody else's alignment and to keep something aligned. When we start putting our alignment first, we then see that there is nothing we need to do or minimal. Please keep in mind. There's a balance to this. It depends on what your alignment is and what is serving you. But when it comes to me, I'm like, there is nothing I need to do in order to know if somebody is aligned with me.
They say, “if you want to see how somebody truly is, it’s to just simply let them be.” Let them be. Stop trying to make them say things this way. Stop trying to make them say things the other way. Stop trying to make them do this. Stop trying to make them stop doing things right… Stop it all! Stop the forcing of yourself or somebody else. Just be you.. Focus on you.. and just analyze and observe everything else. And when people start acting in certain ways and saying certain things about you and pathologizing you and trying to tell you who you are. In my opinion.. Cut it… you don't have to do anything. Stop doing anything to change somebody. People will show you if they're meant to be aligned with you or not. But if you're still deep in the story and the egoic attachment to people and things, you're going to try to make somebody act a certain way, and to try to get people to do something a certain way, to help make you feel a certain way instead of just dropping it.
Ego is what keeps us trapped in cycles, relationships, fear, and limitations. When the strength of our ego starts to fade, and the soul stregthens. There is a sense of peace, and freedom, in the outcome of all possibilities. The ego is uncomfortable and vulnerable in the void. It needs certainty
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